I've been to NYJacks a few times. I want to love it b/c I love to bate, so it should be my place. I do think it's an awesome club and great that there places like this in NYC and other cities. But every time I've gone I've gone in super horny and excited and left a bit underwhelmed.
I've been only on Sunday, so I don't know if the Tuesday sessions are different.
Overall it's pretty crowded and guys are lounging on couches, standing in circles playing, pairing up or in small groups and everyone is beating off. Porn is playing in the background, but this isn't a focus. Guys are pretty intense but also respectful so if you don't want someone to touch you or be by you, it's not an issue. I think if you are into older daddies, then this is probably a great place to be. It is really hot hearing all the moaning and seeing guys shoot, but I guess I've enjoyed stroking more at other events in NYC that aren't just for jerking (like this), probably just b/c the crowds at those events are more my vibe, but I'll probably give this a go some more, just not super often.
I know this type of event can be intimidating, so feel free to DM me if you want to ask more questions. Definitely worth checking out if you like to stroke with buddies.