Nah your experience is the same as mine. Attracting guys who are heavy closet-cases, make no mistake that any man who is trying to hook up with you is not "straight" and that's part of the problem that I think feminine gay men need to stop indulging in. Stop validating these guys' delusions because they aren't straight. No straight man goes for other men even if the man is feminine because feminine men are still men, we have dick and balls, we are adult human males and putting on makeup, dresses, and/or makeup is gonna change that. Part of the reason why a lot of these guys try very hard to see us as sex objects is because they're too cowardly to accept themselves for who they truly are and they
Respectfully, I have to disagree with parts of this response. I do not think that it would be fair for me to decide someone else's sexuality. That is a very personal journey. And if a guy is predominantly attracted to women, what is the harm if he identifies as straight?
usually wait until they're in their 60s-70s and then start chasing after young feminine guys in their 20s who will more than likely not be interested because of the age gap and the whole cycle just repeats itself and part of the way to invoke change is to be the change by not indulging this BS anymore.
Lol wait 60s-70s? Do men even still want sex in their 70s?? Apologies, I should have been more clear in my post. I don't really attract really old men, I would say the guys that approach me the most are in the 21 - 41 age bracket. I am definitely not the stereotypical muscular black top, but surprisingly I do okay out in the streets lol.
On another note, I wish society would have more compassion for people who are closeted. Too often this group is attacked, but I think that we sometimes forget that in some oppressive and dystopian parts of the world you can still be killed for being gay. I am very out and proud, but if I had a gay friend in Jamaica, Saudi Arabia or Uganda....I would suggest they remain in the closet until they can move to a more gay-friendly country.
